I’d be the type of parent who’s protective over their child. I’m so scared of something bad happening and it gives me anxiety when I start yo think about it. Knowing this I also know that I won’t try to be the type of mom that is too scared to let their child into the world. I love my parents and even though I was raised with more fear tactics, I know that they were just trying to protect me from other people. For me having a child sounds like it’s meant to be. I’d want to give them the best I have to offer. Being honest is how I see myself raising my children, teaching them and letting them learn is an idea of what I would do. I hope to be the kind of parents that has a great relationship with their child and is able to give them everything they need. I’m not even sure what type of parent I’d be. I just feel like when the time is right it’ll happen and it’ll be the happiest time of my life. Family is everything to me and I’d want my kids to know that. It is scary to think about as well, having to be responsible for the rest of your life. When you have a child your life is never ever going to be the same. I see a lot of videos about mothers having to mourn their past selves after having their children and I think I will have to do the same. Other times I see how the same cycle goes on and on where men are not treated as responsible for the child and instead are treated as babysitters by themselves. I think the type of parent I would only aspire to be would be the one that shares all responsibility with their partner. I’ve seen women do all the work in raising a child like they were a single mother even thought they are married and I never want to settle for someone who wont take charge and be responsible.
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